POLITICAL CORRECTNESS: by Terry PaulsonNews Weekly
Offended by the offended
, December 25, 2010
CALIFORNIA: Five Live Oak High School students' First Amendment rights were challenged this year when they were asked to leave school because they donned American flag T-shirts on Cinco de Mayo,* an offence one official called "incendiary".
Other students could wear or wave the Mexican flag and any number of other potentially offensive messages, but wearing the American flag in America is just too "incendiary". To their credit, the Morgan Hill Unified School District did not concur with the suspensions, but the "offended" still got their way.
Unfortunately, in America today, being offended works! It's become an effective strategy for oppressing the freedom of those who disagree with the offended party. An Iowa Veterans Hospital is removing crosses and Christian symbols from its chapels because "offended" atheist complainers have successfully intimidated hospital administrators with threats of a lawsuit.
On a more personal level, when a doctor informed a female patient that she was clinically obese and needed to lower her weight, she was offended. Instead of addressing her own weight issues, she attempted to get her doctor reprimanded.
Is this still America? "We the people" are supposed to be free to disagree, dislike you, and even offend you. Face the sad truth: in a free society, there will always be somebody out there who will be offended with anything, everything or at least something that you might say or do.
Don't let name-calling get to you. Borrowing the words of the GEICO drill-sergeant therapist, "Maybe we should chug on over to mambi-pambi land and find some self confidence for you!" Grab some tissues instead of intimidating others into compromising our freedom of speech.
The French-born American historian, Jacques Barzun, said, "Political correctness does not legislate tolerance; it only organises hatred." Political correctness is the enemy of freedom of speech.
What may have begun as a crusade for civility has soured into arguments over what is "offensive" and, even worse, censorship. To label someone a bigot or a racist for a comment that offends minimises true racism. If being offended is enough to squander our freedom of speech, I'm offended by those who are offended.
Too many have forgotten that handy childhood saying: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me." Words may hurt and even offend, but they need not have lasting impact. Even with the most hateful of comments, we're dealing with strong statements, not physical blows.
After all, anyone entering into political discourse should wear a flak jacket and helmet. As a columnist, I've been called a simplistic f***ing clown, a right liar, narrow-minded, a cruel joke, a two-faced hypocrite, and my favourite - a jackass trying to look like horse. I've been asked, "What planet are you living on?" I've been told that since I've "had enough" of President Obama, I ought to leave the county, the state, and even the country! Such comments go with the territory.
The best response to hateful comments is not a counter-attack but to keep expressing your opinions. It's healthy to learn that you can survive verbal attacks for your views and sleep soundly at night.
When you don't like what is said, choose to disagree and let their attack slide by or get beyond their name-calling and consider changing your opinion. Choosing to be offended is not a constructive choice.
Thankfully, some are protesting "offended" demonstrators. After "offended" students from Michigan State's Muslim Students' Association protested the publishing of Danish cartoons portraying the Prophet Muhammad as a terrorist, Professor Indrek Wichman protested the protest. He sent an e-mail to the association: "I am offended not by cartoons, but by more mundane things like beheadings of civilians, cowardly attacks on public buildings, suicide murders, ... the imposition of Sharia law on non-Muslims."
In spite of an immediate uproar from the association and CAIR, the university has stood in support of Professor Wichman, saying the e-mail was private and, as a result, warranted no university condemnation.
So, instead of using the courts or the long arm of the government to ban, threaten, or otherwise punish those who refuse to agree with your views, try exposing the supposed "offending" comments. Treat what you consider "hate" speech with more speech, not legal manoeuvering that limits one of our most treasured freedoms.
Remember, people you try to silence may not get mad; they may get even and work to censor and control you! When it comes to taking offence, don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to you.* Cinco de Mayo (Spanish for "fifth of May") commemorates the Mexican army's unexpected victory over French forces at the Battle of Puebla on May 5, 1862. The anniversary is celebrated in both the Mexican state of Puebla and the United States.Terry Paulson, PhD, is a psychologist, syndicated columnist, author and public speaker. His latest book is The Optimism Advantage (John Wiley, 2010). The above article, which is reproduced here by the author's permission, originally appeared on the American conservative website Townhall.com (December 6, 2010).