May 22nd 2004

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COVER STORY: An election winning Budget?

EDITORIAL: Child care funding and the Budget

AGRICULTURE: Sugar package, Clayton's package

NATIONAL AFFAIRS: Ethanol for strategic energy self-reliance

STRAWS IN THE WIND: More history wars / Betrayal / Guilt by association / ALP founding

COMMENT: Tougher law enforcement needed to stop drug wars

FREE TRADE AGREEMENT: Economist describes CIE report as laughable

Nature says no to same sex marriage (letter)

Vietnam human rights (letter)

Western media hypocrisy (letter)

No choice for mothers (letter)

Marriage unaffordable (letter)

Taiwan and the WHO (letter)

US economic integration defended (letter)

ECONOMY: Manufacturing decline causes foreign debt crisis

Europe's uncertain future

REPORT: More of the same at UN women's conference

COMMENT: Same-sex marriage: there are no limits

BOOKS: EMPIRE: How Britain Made The Modern World, by Niall Ferguson

BOOKS: Alger Hiss's Looking-Glass Wars: The Covert Life of a Soviet Spy, by G. Edward White

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Same-sex marriage: there are no limits

by Bill Muehlenberg

News Weekly, May 22, 2004
George Orwell once remarked, "There are some ideas so preposterous that only an intellectual could believe them". The move to redefine the nature of marriage may be a case in point. When the Prime Minister recently suggested that our marriage laws should be strengthened, the reaction was as swift as it was hostile.

A number of commentators labelled this proposal "radical". What a curious thing to say. There is nothing radical about reaffirming what most cultures throughout human history have always affirmed, namely that marriage is about the union of a man and a woman, full stop. That is not revolutionary. That is the accumulated wisdom of nearly every human society throughout recorded history.

Yet our intelligentsia did its best to make Mr Howard look like a madman, or worse. High-profile lesbian couple, Kerryn Phelps and Jackie Stricker, for example went on the offensive. They claimed that attempts to block legal recognition of same-sex marriages was a "form of apartheid". But that of course is arrant nonsense.

No comparison

There is no comparison between apartheid and defending heterosexual marriage. Even black activists like Jesse Jackson have rejected such a disingenuous analogy.

Apartheid is about keeping races apart. Marriage is about bringing men and women together. Heterosexual marriage has been around for millennia. Talk of same-sex marriage has been around for a few decades. Marriage was thus not created to discriminate against anyone, as apartheid was.

If we want a genuine comparison, however, let me provide one. The very same arguments used for legalising same-sex marriage could be used to argue for any number of other sexual combinations.

If marriage is no longer one man and one woman for life, then any number of alternatives seem to be possible. If homosexuals can argue that a loving committed relationship should qualify one for the institution of marriage, then other equally binding and loving unions should be recognised. What about a bisexual who really does love both a man and a woman, simultaneously? Can this threesome qualify?

Indeed, polyamory (group marriage) has become a new cause, championed by both grassroots groups and academic supporters. A quick search of the internet will reveal just how popular the idea of polyamory is becoming.

There are even groups arguing for the right to marry one's pet. Called petrosexuality, this new sexuality insists that a person's love for his or her pet, including sexual relations, should be made official.

The truth is, all boundaries are smashed when we redefine marriage.

Consider the Futurist, published by the World Futurist Society based in America. This is not some lunatic fringe periodical. A host of scholars and academics have graced its pages over the years.

In the current issue, a cultural historian wrote an article entitled "The Transformation of Marriage". Stephen Bertman, professor emeritus of languages, literatures, and cultures at Canada's University of Windsor, argued that marriage may be "a semantic artifact of a lost world" and that it is not just the transience of marriage that is at issue now.

"It is the very definition of the term that futurists must now address. A radical redefinition of marriage is now under way that promises to transform its meaning for all future time."

He gave as his first example, of course, same-sex marriage. He did not stop there however. He then went on to speak of other types of marriage. Seemingly with a straight face, he raised the prospect of "interspecies marriage". This is the "potential for the sexual union of human beings and aliens". From there he mentioned the option of marriages to pets.

Why couldn't an "individual choose to affirm the emotional attachment he or she feels for a pet with the formality of a documented ceremony in which the human partner promises to love and honour the animal companion?"

And, finally, presumably still with the utmost seriousness, he speaks of the "theoretical possibility" of "the marriage of human beings to inanimate objects". He speaks of how many men love their cars, or how many people have formed an intimate relationship with their computer. "Why should not this bond of tactile intimacy be validated by more than an owner's manual?" he asks, seemingly with complete sincerity.

As American social commentator William Bennett has put it, "Once marriage has been detached from the natural, complementary teleology of the sexes, it becomes nothing more than what each of us makes of it".

Indeed, one of the most recent and compelling arguments for same-sex marriage has come from Washington journalist Jonathan Rauch. Yet he admits that when we tinker with tradition, we never know what might happen. "A catastrophe cannot be ruled out," he concedes.

The fact that we now take seriously a proposition that would have been laughed out of court just a few short decades ago indicates something. For those seeking to redefine marriage, it is an indication of progress. But for those of us who think otherwise, it is a sure sign of regression.

  • Bill Muehlenberg

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